thanks for visiting! You will not regret it. (Waving). Fatherly type things like that. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. this was all chinese for him but for me it was the confirmation Of I had felled. I can relate to almost all you've been saying. I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. I think we are a bit obsessive about each other although he seemed to be feeling it the worst. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. Venus in 12th entirely depends on how well both people can handle Neptune. Any info i'll share with you later. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. It is a hard process . Never felt this way in my life. Venus Synastry: 1st House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. I feel I cannot even hide from him. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. A stripping of the egos for sure! It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. NO THANKS!!! I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. He does tell me how he feels about me. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! Lot's of non-verbal communicating. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. Synastry: My Planets Fall In His 12th House | ElsaElsa Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. Sometimes the experience in this house is painful other times it's purely magical. What he did to you was cowardly. Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus Venus Synastry in the Houses PATH-STROLOGY Utilizing Astrology to Find Your Path Home Natal Placements / Aspects Synastry Placements / Aspects Composite Placements / Aspects Planet: Sun Planet: Moon Planet: Mars Planet: Venus Planet: Jupiter Planet: Uranus Planet: Pluto Asteroids + Points Celebrities / The Infamous Past Life Astrology But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. I often attract men who has Leo personal planets which falls in my 12th house. My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. Oh . There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. ive seen it many times in others too. Tell me as the Venus person how do u feel? For one odd reason I never completely believed him. Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. And for that I am sorry you had to experience that. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. Im also worried he is using me on many levels and though his words and actions say otherwise, I feel that this is at least partially true. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. Its vague, wet, murky and the fog is dense, we need to rely on our intuition, but our intuition is skewed here, so what is one to do? But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). Im stuck. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. 12th house synastry venus - bpbwmb.salesconsulter.de He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! Either come correct or go away. My moon falls in someone's 12th house. Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. What do you think? My daughter and i also have gemini mercury and my baby girl also has venus in gemini. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. I know exactly what you mean and boy is it hard to wrap your head around 12th house connections, there are other worldly and they leave a deep impression that is hard to shake off. He got married, told me so and yet said that nothing will change. Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. SPOOKY!! Venus-Uranus in Synastry - The Astrology Place when i came back there was this weird thing between us. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. No he is the Venus in Cancer. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. This is the house of Venus and Taurus, so there will also be some jealousy and protectiveness of each other as well. His Venus is trine my Mars. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. Venus-Pluto Synastry - Conjunct, Square, Trine, Opposite As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. When I think about it, it makes me sad we aren't together. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. He does remind me of a father figure in a way. Sent 5 times a week. Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. Still, whenever I think about doing something new in my life, with anyone else I speak with confidence and gusto. He understands me in a very deep level. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! Take the love goggles off. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. I really like the Leo energy. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. Synastry: Planet Overlays in Houses (Transposed Houses) For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. From there on, things never became the same anymore. I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. He could not and cannot change . I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Not in a bad way though. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. More so after 15 years. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. Double whammies in my opinion are like gateways of energy between the two people the energy is mutual, open, and receptive- going both ways. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. I will try to expand on it in greater detail for ya, so check back:). . Venus in 12th house Synastry - Lindaland - linda-goodman.com I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. It doesn't necessarily have to do with verbal flattery but the presentation, image or interaction boosts the House. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. Lol. Mars in the 3rd house overlay: This position for Mars in synastry, much like the 1st house position, can be very stimulating in either a positive or negative way.On the one hand, this position can stimulate a lot of invigorating conversation between the two, and the house person can appreciate how vocal and confident the Mars person is in their speech. He was so familiar, which I think it's because of the NN connections. Unrequited Love in the Charts - My Christian Psychic The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. The last one who was a crush had his Leo sun in my 12th. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. He also has this aspect with my daughter too. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. The moment we talked I felt like I knew him since always, and when started shring some details it was like we had the same growing up, same ambitions (my Sun is in Aries, his in Capricorn). Most often, this includes banking, art and value-related activities. This could be the unconditional kind of love people look for, its about whether or not you can handle it. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. The 12th House & Love Astrology - The Dark Pixie Astrology He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life.